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What is Love?
Iโve been watching a few romances lately, and I canโt help asking, what is love? Bearing in mind the standard romance book/movie/song story line where a person meets another person, falls in love, has a big fight, gets back together and lives happily ever after.
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I miss you so much
One of the key Stoic philosophical foundations is preparing yourself for misfortune. There’s a sort of miss you or make you risk management element to it.
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How to Overcome the Wardrobe Diet Dilemma
I was recently reading a book discussing the psychological effects of deprivation. Regardless of whether thatโs cigarettes, cars, or a wardrobe diet.
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Big F and small f Friends
After debate about Big L and small l liberals, I got thinking about Big F and small f friends.
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Housework Survey Says: What You Really Think About It
A while back, I asked if there was such a thing as minimally viable housework? Well, housework survey says maybe.
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Event Outfit
The most common event outfit code today is Cocktail Dress; a semi-formal day/night transitional wear. It came about during the inter-war years when it was common to meet in the evening for a quick drink before dressing (black tie) for dinner.
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July 2018 Progress Report
I spent a good proportion of July 2018 business planning and reviewing, and I feel like it’s almost Christmas because my head is so far in the future. Mind you, right now the future looks bright, so that’s a good thing.
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How To Apologise Like You Mean It
There’s been another round of dud apologies, and I just don’t get why some people find it so hard to apologise. Perhaps they too have a mother who spent years demanding that they apologise like they mean it. And when (if) they do, it’s often too late – the horse has bolted – the damage…
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Start a New Business Spending Plan
It’s tax time here in Australia. Often people seeing their numbers in black and white on their returns start wondering about starting a new business.
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Yes, Love is Forever – No Matter What
Love is forever. At least that’s what traditional marriage vows say:
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Stress Free Dinner Party When You’re Not Hungry
While aย Dinner Party when you’re not hungry seems like a contradiction, it does sometimes happen that for one reason or another you lose your appetite.
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Coffee’s Place in the New Culture of Selfishness
Recently I’ve been pondering the culture of selfishness we live in. The one where people pull out in front of you rather than waiting a few seconds for you to drive past.
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The Pleasure and Pain of the Stories You Tell Yourself
They say thereโs a novel in all of us, but it seems to me that the stories you tell yourself on an average day could write a novel a day for the rest of your life. And still not make a dent in your story.
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Public Appearance Outfit
Now and again there are times you need to be in public as yourself, only better.ย When you’reย being a public figure, you need a public appearance outfit that makes it clear you’re “someone”.
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2018 Mid-Year Review
There is absolutely no doubt that to mid-year 2018 has been infinitely better than this time last year. Last year’s picture was hurricane devastation, and this year I’m turning a corner.
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June 2018 Progress Report
Ah, June 2018.ย All the drama worthy of a Hollywood epic. Something like the 1956 Charlton Heston epic The Ten Commandments. Yeah, okay, that’s probably a wee bit of an exaggeration, but it had its ups and downs.
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Your Role as Purchasing Agent
Have you ever thought about your role as a Purchasing Agent? Or are you like most people who just buy stuff?
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We Can’t All be Cats With Nine Lives
After a transplant rejection scare,we waited dismally for the results. Feeling like we were running out of time. We can’t all be cats with nine lives.
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Dinner Party to Comfort a Friend with Depression
Let me start by saying that a Dinner Party to Comfort a Friend with Depression is not the end of what you can do.
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How to Make a Wild Monkey Contingency Plan
A wise man once told me that difficult thoughts are like wild monkeys. And Iโve discovered that now and again you need a Wild Monkey Contingency Plan just to get some peace.
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How to Build an Outfit When You Want To Be Left Alone
Now and again, it happens that you just donโt want to be bothered by other people. So today, we’re building anย outfit for when you want to be left alone.
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May 2018 Progress Report
I’m not sure what happened to May 2018 – it’s all a blur. Still tired, and still under investigation so we’ll all have to wait longer to see what’s going on health-wise.
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5 Easy Ways to Foster Your Life Energy
Eastern religions have a concept of life energy; Hindus call it prana, and the Chinese qi (chโi). Some Western philosophical traditions call it รฉlan vital, or vital force.
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How to Create a Savings Plan
While I’ve talked about Spending Plans, and how to rearrange them to accommodateย your goals, I’ve not mentioned how to create a Savings Plan.
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The Sun Shines Brightly
I had my second cataract surgery not long ago. When the bandage came off, I was surprised (again) that the sun shines brightly.
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The Happiness of Housekeeping Habits and Routines
I think that Iโm a little more on top of the houskeeping because in the meantime, Iโve developed some housekeeping habits.
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In-laws Dinner Party
I have to start by saying you can’t have a stress free event when your guests stress you out. That makes today’sย In-laws Dinner Party a somewhat questionable proposition.
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Movie Outfit
My local cinema was so dark I thought it had closed down until a bunch of people in gym gear walked out, so I decided it was time for a Movie Outfit.
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April 2018 Progress Report
And that’s April 2018 done and dusted. Just like last month. I’m still tired, feeling stupid, and scratching my head over where the month went.
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How to Recognise and Take Advantage of Opportunities
You’re only a few steps from losing or winning it all. You just need the ability to recognise and take advantage of opportunities that come your way.
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Life Is All Too Short
Life is a finite thing. It has a beginning, a middle, and an end. Sometimes life is all too short, and sometimes it’s way too long.
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How to Make Good Purchasing Decisions
Here in Australia, the Banking Royal Commission is well underway. And you may wonder what this has to do with good purchasing decisions, but at some point, we all chose to buy their services, and some of us chose to invest in them, and all of our superannuation funds invest and bank with them.
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Unbearable Silence
Sometimes, when you are waiting for something, the wait feels unendurable. A never-ending unbearable silence. Especially when you think that something is really important.
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Doing the Damn Housework; Downton Abbey and You
It seems to me that the problem with doing the Damn Housework is that weโre all amateurs acting like professionals.
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Red Dinner Party
Today I’m tackling aย Red Dinner Party. Just because I’m curious about whether I can. And because red is my favourite colour.
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How to Build A Signature Shoe Wardrobe
Iโve been preoccupied with shoes lately, or more accurately, the adequacy of them. And what a shoe wardrobe might look like. And what it would take to look after my feet better.
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Brunch Outfit
Today Iโm looking at a brunch outfit. In case you donโt know, brunch is a late breakfast you eat around lunchtime.
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March 2018 Progress Report
March 2018 has been and gone, though Iโm not entirely sure where it went. Still very tired and sleeping a lot. Toseland helpfully pointed out that people who are stressed out are usually tired and sleep a lot.
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Memento Mori
For those who don’t know, the Latin phrase Memento Mori more or less means remember, you’re gonna die too. And perhaps coincidentally concurrent with my visit to the Vikings exhibition, the funeral home that threatened to cancel my mother’s funeral four hours before it was due to commence sent me an email to remind me that it’s…
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Alexandria’s Adventures in Asgรฅrd
Well, not literally Asgรฅrd; but theย Vikings: Beyond the Legend exhibition at the Melbourne Museum.
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Get Moving! Holistic Spending Plan
Around now, when life settles back into its usual rut, many of us cry out “I wish I could just get moving again.”
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Changing Seasons Bring the Smell of Smoke in the Wind
Once again it’s the time of changing seasons. The weather is cooling, and the morning air has a definite chill.
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A Short Soapbox about Fat Old White Guys and Doing the Housework
I’ve been thinking about modern life. And how fat old white guys still run the world. And that they believe they know what is best for everyone else.
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Rabbit Lovers Dinner Party
Having written dinner parties for dog and cat lovers, I cannot refuse a request for a Rabbit Lovers Dinner Party. By which I mean a pet rabbit dinner party, not one featuring a lapin main course. This has been one of the hardest Dinner Parties I have ever put together!
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Research Outfit
This one comes from Judy in Minnesota who sent me an email asking, among other things, about my research outfit. Recently I wore to the library for research.
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2018 Winter Wardrobe Plan
As I mentioned in my Summer Update there have been some changes in my dressing requirements, so it’s time to plan out myย 2018 Winter Wardrobe Plan.
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2017 Summer Wardrobe Update
Let me start by saying while there was no plan, I thought Iโd do a 2017 Summer Wardrobe Update anyway because I learned a few useful things in the meantime.
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February 2018 Progress Report
I feel a bit like I blinked and missed February 2018, but I was unwell for a good deal of it. Talk about sleeping your life away.
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Why You Should Joyfully Embrace Difference
Except now and again, aย singularly bright person stands out. They choose to embrace difference and drawing on their individuality, get out there and make an impact.
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Quit Smoking Holistic Spending Plan
Sooner or later, some smokers will decideย it’s time to quit smoking. It’s not a snap decision; it’s something most of us think about for many years, and take several attempts to do.
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Life Takes the Back Seat
I received some disturbing news this week that suggests I’veย lost focus on what really matters. Life goes on regardless, and we think we are making the best of it, but being alive is not the same thing as living a life that’s worth living.
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Dinner Party with Leftovers
Jenine has challenged me to write a Dinner Party with Leftovers There are two kinds of leftovers; planned and incidental.
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The Relationship Between Time Money and Love
I’ve been researching Life in the Great Depression, so I’ve been thinking a lot about the relationships between time, money, and love.
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January 2018 Progress Report
The thing we all do is expect January to be better than December simply because it’s a new year. Which goes part way to explaining why January 2018 doesn’t feel “better” than December 2017.
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Hospital Admission Outfit
With my recent surgical visit fresh in my mind, today I’m offering a hospital admission outfit. This outfit is for your first day at hospital, whether that’s for a day procedure, overnight, or a longer stay. Your hospital will tellย you about any other items you should bring with you. Climate/Location/Activities The first thing to note…
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Alexandria’s Adventures in Cataract Surgery
I had cataract surgery a few days ago, and it went really well. But I find reading, writing, and watching quite tiring, and it makes my operated eye hot and scratchy.
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Read More Books Spending Plan
I am quite often told, “I wish I had the time to read more books.” And I understand that because I wish it too!
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5 Tips for Surviving Renovations
We’ve been renovating our bathroo; it’s been what you might callย interesting… With that in mind, here are my top 5 tips for surviving renovations.
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Dinner Party During Renovations
It’s been hard to adapt to one bathroom, and as weโre talking about the kitchen… I’m wondering a Dinner Party During Renovations.
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Outfit to Inspire Action
I could win gold medals for procrastination, so it seems to me that I (and my friend Katy) need an Outfit to Inspire Action.
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Christmas Spending Plan
With Christmas 2017 over, you may be wondering why you spent so much. The easiest way to get 2018 under control is with a Christmas Spending Plan
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2018 Planning for a Happy and Worthwhile Life
My 2018 vision, is of a dynamic businesswoman. And my mission is to entertain and share my wisdom, so now itโs time to get into the 2018 planning.
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2018 Vision, Mission and Virtues
Regardless, it’s time to think more seriously about where the year is going, and inย particular, myย 2018 Vision, Mission and Virtues
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2017 Year End Review
It seems like yesterday I was writing my Mid-Year Review, and itโs already time for the 2017 Year End Review. So odd that time is infinite, yet gone all too soon. Even in really shitty years.
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December 2017 Progress Report
December 2017; the last vestige of my annus horribilusย (horrible year). And it wasn’t too bad. Though not terribly productive (in common with most Decembers).
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Happy 2018!
It’s time to leave the past behind and embrace the future – there are changes afoot, but you’ll have to wait to hear more about them. Happy 2018.
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Happy Holidays 2017!
Happy Holidays 2017. Time to shut the door on the wolrd, eat minde pies, drink champagne, loll listlessly in the summer heat.
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Stay in Touch Holistic Spending Plan
Every year almost everyone forms an intention to spend more time with their friends, so this month I’m looking at aย Stay in Touch Holistic Spending Plan.
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Great Depression Dinner Party
I’ve been researching the Great Depression for a while now, and having recently watched The Roosevelts I reckon it’s time for aย Great Depression Dinner Party!
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November 2017 Progress Report
With November 2017 gone, we’re on the downhill run to the end of the year, and if you’re not ready, that’s falling into the “that’s too bad” department.
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Christmas Party Outfit
I’ve been asked a couple of times now, what would make a goodย Christmas Party Outfit. On the one hand, a perfectly reasonable request, and on the other, a complete nightmare given the different kinds of Christmas Party you could be attending.
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If a Tree Falls in the Forest
During the recent storms, a tree fell on our house [1]. Fortunately, the tree died a long time ago, so it was brittle and broke up when it hit. But as the rain washed the dry earth from its roots, it fell without warning and with such force, the ground shook. And it made so…
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5 Ways to Plan for the Plateau
Somehow a conversation about The X-Files morphed into running aground when you are trying to lose weight because people just donโt plan for the plateau.
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Summer Fruits Dinner Party
Iโve been indulging in a lot of lovely fresh summer fruit lately, so that makes it time for a Summer Fruits Dinner Party.
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Make New Friends Spending Plan
Something that’s been on my list for a while is meeting new people, and I know others do too. So letโs look at a Make New Friends Spending Plan.
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Dog Walking Outfit
The other day at the dog park, I was aksed my I dress so nice to take the dogs put. As good an excuse as any to talk aboutย a dog walking outfit. The outfit I was wearing is for warmer weather, and shares elements with my exercise, yard work, beach, and house cleaning outfits.
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October 2017 Progress Report
That’s October 2017 done and dusted. There’s loads of Christmas stuff in the stores, so it’s starting to feel as though the rest of the year only matters in so far as it gives you time to get ready for the holiday season.
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My Dog Snores Gently
As you know, my poor pretty boy has been ill. Turns out he has kidney failure and is down to about 25% kidney function. I know how that feels. We might get another year or two with him if we can manage his condition well enough, but he’s not a big complaining attention seeker like…
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2017 Transplantiversary
Well, that’s the 2017 Transplantiversary gone – six years now. And the transplanted kidney is still doing well; there’s no sign of the rapid degeneration I feared after my 2016 Transplantiversary.
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Gangsters Dinner Party
Today weโre doing a Gangsters Dinner Party to remember the passing of the US National Prohibition Act on October 28, 1919.
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Holistic Pet Ownership Spending Plan
My poor Pretty Boy’s been ill for the last few weeks. Fortunately, he’s recovered, so let’s look at a Holistic Pet Ownership Spending Plan.
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Race Meeting Outfit
Spring is here, the Racing Carnival is off and running, and it’s time to think aboutย a Race Meeting Outfit.
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Holistic Weight Loss Spending Plan
So many of us decide to lose weight as if it’s something without cost – but we’re all wrong! Today, we’ll examine a Weight Loss Holistic Spending Plan.
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September 2017 Progress Report
I can’t believe September 2017 is gone already – I have no idea where the month went. Lucky I keep a journal to check back on!
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Holistic Overseas Vacation Spending Plan
With Holistic Personal Finance about ready for release, it’s time to start sharing it with you. Starting with a Holistic Overseas Vacation Spending Plan.
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Spring is Here at Last
Spring is here at last. We’ve had some of the kind of warm days that make you want to start clearing up your yard for the upcoming barbecue season.
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2017 Winter Wardrobe Update
Weather’s warming up, I’m starting to think about what to wear on hot days. But first, here’s myย 2017 Winter Wardrobe Update.
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Tennis Dinner Party
Tennis. There’s a bit of it about at the moment, so today’s the day for a Wimbledon inspired Tennis Dinner Party.
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Prepping for Summer
The sun rises earlier, the days are warming, and it’s time to start thinking about prepping for summer.
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Headshot Outfit
All of us at one point or another will need a Headshot Outfit, even if itโs just for your passport or drivers licence. And these days, you will most likely get one for your work security card, and increasingly your employerโs website too!
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Pleasure and Pain of your Mother’s Realia
The last of my mother’s effects, or I suppose they’re realia now, recently arrived in the post.ย It’s a queer feeling.
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Know Thyself
We have been exhorted since ancient times to โknow thyselfโ, mainly because you come to know the gods by knowing yourself. Though some ancients felt this was just a way to find out how ignorant and stupid you are.
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August 2017 Progress Report
Before I even start thinking about it, I know August 2017 was a great month. That’s quite a novelty after the last few difficult months. In the main, that’s because DB and I took a trip to Japan!
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Feels Like a New Start
Things have gone to pot around here recently, but I’ve only just noticed. It’s not pleasant and I feel like I just need a new start.
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Wallace and Gromit Dinner Party
Continuing with our theme of exhibition visits, today we’re hosting a Wallace and Gromit Dinner Party.
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Art Gallery Outfit
Following my encouragement to visit the Hokusai exhibition, it seems only fair to build a Art Gallery Outfit.
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What is Your Home’s Purpose?
Your Home’s Purpose is not something you generally think about day-to-day.
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July 2017 Progress Report
Following the 2017 Mid Year review I made some goal changes, so let’s check in and see how July 2017 is going.
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The Adventures of Prussian Blue
Have you heard about the adventures of Prussian Blue? It’s a fascinating story of little things making a big difference to the way we see the world. And each other.