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Alexandria’s Adventure with The Style Podcast
Sadly, The Style Podcast is no longer available, but I decided to leave this post here, because it’s partly about taking risks, trying new things, and also quite flattering ๐
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2016 Mid-Year Review โ Project Worthwhile Life
Now that the year is half over, itโs time to check in for the 2016 Mid-Year Review to see how Iโm getting on with the 2016 goals.
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Wind Blows Fiercely
I love it when the wind blows fiercely. I’m just the right size to have to fight it; not so small I blow away and not so large I can easily resist it. And I love it when the wind whips my hair about my face and it seemsย as if my hair is trying to…
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Zombie Dinner Party
Now, it seems very clear why soulless, unstoppable monsters are everywhere. And that makes it a good time to write a Zombie Dinner Party.
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Is Your Appearance Equal to Your Virtue?
The sarcophagus of Scipio Barbatvs tells us that among the impressive things about him, it turns out that his appearance was equal to virtue.
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Yard Work Outfit
We lost another shrub to the storms, and with a fair bit of clean up to do, it seems the right time to talk about building a Yard Work Outfit.
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The Perils of Disrespect
I grated my finger and nail the other day, and had to cut off the hanging edgeย (it’s still sore). Embarrassing, but this is what happens when you disrespect your tools.
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June 2016 Progress Report
June 2016 has been a difficult month. Iโm not sure what the problem was, but it was a one step forward two steps back kind of month.
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Election Day Reflection
Today I fulfilled one of my obligations as an Australian Citizen and voted on Election Day in the Federal Election.
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When Life Gives You Lemons…
Sometimes things donโt go quite to plan, and as they say, when life gives you lemons you should make lemonade.
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How to Choose an Appropriate Cardigan
I know that some people donโt quite get what I mean by appropriateness in clothing. So today weโre talking about how to choose an appropriate cardigan by discussing why I have two red cardigans in my wardrobe.
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Alexandria’s Adventures in Morning Routine
Following my brush with theย collapse of control, I’ve been noticing a lot of chat about “morning routine” in my podcasts and webinars lately, and there has been one thing that stood out for me.
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Looks Like Rain Will Fall
As you know, Iย have been planning to include pleasure in my life.ย This year, I am focusing on trying new things. One thing I’m trying is Haiku; an ideal indoor activity for when rain will fall. It’s a traditional form of Japanese poetry, represented in English by three lines of five, seven and five syllables you…
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Gluten Free Dinner Party
Before we dive into theย Gluten Free Dinner Party, let’s look at what gluten is and why you might need a gluten free (GF) dinner party.
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Office Work Outfit
This is the season for fashion advisors to start telling you what new and expensive clothes you need to buy to make your Office Work Outfit for the next five minutes (before the next lot of essentials come out).
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May 2016 Progress Report
Looking back, I think May 2016 was an excellent month. I went away, lost a bit of weight, and took some professional development. But tax time is coming to Australia, and itโs time for me to start sorting out my business affairs.
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On Losing the Comfortable Illusion of Control
I’ve had a pretty awful day, so, I have been thinking about the nature of control, or perhaps more accurately, the illusion of control.
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The Great Houdini and his Awesome Leap for Life Yarra Dive
I came across this series of Houdini photos a little while back but didn’t have enough time to do much more than say OMG! Houdini was in Melbourne!! How did I not know that???
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How To Dress Like Who You Are
Iโve been reading Mary Brooks Picken again. She calls it distinctive dressing, but itโs more along the lines of โdress like who you areโ. Something I talk about in my book Signature Wardrobe Planning.
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Look Forward
I think we spend too much time wishing we had done things differently instead of taking a look forward.
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Alexandria’s Adventure in Shaving Soap Shampoo
I included some of Annette Kellerman’s hair care advice in my book Signature Wardrobe Planning.ย Including her assertion thatย theย shampoo is a pure soap like shaving soap followed by a rainwater rinse.
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Towel Day Dinner Party
For those who don’t know, May 25 is Towel Day, when devotees of the late Douglas Adams carry towels in his honour. That makes it a good day for a Towel Day Dinner Party.
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5 Brave Steps to a Joyous New Life
I recently re-read Third Act Trousseau, by Kay Noske, I was saddened by her undertone of wistful regret but inspired by her choice to create a new life starting with the things she missed out on.
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Mobile Phone Madness
The first mobile phone call took place in 1973, but I didnโt get my first phone until 1997.
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House Cleaning Outfit
As you know, I have been trying (for a long time) to lift my game on cleaning house. Aside from clothes that are loose, with elbow length sleeves I haven’t thought about a House Cleaning Outfit to wear while doing it.
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April 2016 Progress Report
Iโm not exactly sure where April 2016 went. Iโm feeling really tired, a little unmotivated, and very unproductive. I donโt even have any decent pictures from April โ must lift my game!
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Individualism and Collectivism
Last week was a solemn week for many Australians, and there has been an element of the tension between individualism and collectivism, and whose goals should be primary.
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Alexandria’s Adventure in 100% Pashmina
I bought a lovely shawl not long ago. It was labelled “100% Pashmina”, but I knew when I bought it that it was not “pashmina”.
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5 Shoe Fit Myths Busted
So I recently took my “go-to” boots to Toseland the cobbler to be resoled, and we were chatting about shoes and shoe fit myths (we should have gone to the pub for a couple of beers).
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The Surprising Benefits of Home Ergonomics
In case you donโt know, Ergonomics, sometimes called Human Factors, is the science of arranging spaces, products and systems to fit people. Not just workplaces, but things like car dashboards and wheeled suitcases too.
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Outfit for Air Travel
Your Outfit for Air Travel is another one of those things that have changed over time.
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March 2016 Progress Report
With the refugee and terrorist crises in Europe, and the ongoing war in Syria, my March progress report feels a little too indulgent. But as for everyone else, my life moves on, and if I donโt keep on top of these goals, they wonโt happen.
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Take a Little Time-out Competition Winner
Thank you all for visiting my site during the little things blog hop, it was a pleasure to meet so many new people. And now itโs time to announce the Take a Little Time-out Competition Winner.
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Importance of Free Will in Destiny
After the destiny post, I was accused of being depressing. Not what I hoped for, but it leads into a discussion about the place of free will/autonomy/human agency in destiny.
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What Makes It Your Destiny Anyway?
I have been thinking a bit about Destiny recently. Iโm not sure why โ some, or all, or none of the following:
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International Happiness Day Dinner Party
Today (March 20) is International Happiness Day; obviously, we need an International Happiness Day Dinner Party.
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Take a Little Time-out for Yourself
Take a little time out, because itโs the little things that make life everything…
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I seem to have lost a week…
I seem to have lost a week, I put it down for a moment and now it;s vanished. It must be true that time won’t wait, I am flotsam in its wake.
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Outfit for Watching Football
Football season’s finally here! Hot enough to feel sorry for the boys running around on field, but still time to start thinking about your Outfit for Watching Football.
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February 2016 Progress Report
I’ve been delaying February 2016’s progress report because it was one of those months where everything went wrong, fell over, or took 57 times longer than expected to complete.
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The Happy Benefits of Old Fashioned Budgeting
Iโm researching a book on Holistic Personal Finance, and finding the difference between modern and old fashioned budgeting amusing, confusing and a disquieting indicator of the change in our values.
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Alexandria’s Adventure in Bunking Off
I should first mention for those that don’t know, “bunk” (as in bunking off) is also a verb meaning to leave, most notable in The Shawshank Redemption when Andy Dufresne is noted to have “done a bunk, sir”.
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How to Choose The Clothing Quality That’s Right For You
Today I want to talk about clothing quality. In the main because there has been a recent push for people to buy fewer, higher quality garments that last longer.
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Summer Vacation Dinner Party
Itโs quite common for friends and family to vacation together. You wouldnโt typically call this a Summer Vacation Dinner Party but you could feed the kids then put together something grown up for later.
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A Short History of Attitudes Towards Household Expenditure
I am intrigued in particular about how the attitudes towards household expenditure I’ve been reading about have changed.
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How to Enjoy the Deliciousness of Dresses
I am obsessed with the deliciousness of dresses at the moment. I mentioned in my January review that I bought some dresses and that I particularly adore my โhouse dressโ. I have been trying to work out when and why I stopped wearing them.
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January 2016 Progress Report
January 2016 marks the first progress report for the new year, it’s kind of exciting. I haven’t bothered to close out last year, mainly because I was busy bragging about how well the year went in my “birthday post”.
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Alexandria’s Adventure on a Mental Health Day
What with this and that (and the other) I found myself needing a mental health day; a day away from book writing and business podcasts and all that. If you havenโt heard of this, itโs when you arenโt physically ill but need a day off work to unwind and de-stress.
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3 Ps for Dealing with the Unexpected
I recently read a blog post in which Krista offers advice about dealing with the unexpected.
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How to BE an Indomitable Presence
Something else people do at this time of year is consider revamping their wardrobes (won’t you be glad when January is over and I move on). Katy recently sent me a link to an old blog post about how Petites can build presence (like me she’s troubled in this area). It’s written by Kelly, who describes herself…
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5 Simple Self-Care Steps for Body and Soul
This time of year, you’ll find a lot of people really committing to self-care, though they canโt seem to identify what exactly that entails aside from โeating wellโ and โrunning.โ
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New Year Detox Dinner Party
After New Years people often โdetoxโ. I believe in moderation and a balanced approach, but if I didn’t, it mght be time for a New Year Detox Dinner Party.
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Planning 2016
Hello again! Iโm so excited to be back. During our break, I made time to review 2015, and I believe my virtues make the same sound basis for planning 2016.
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Outfit for Exercise Newbies
The new year often brings the intention to lose weight and get fit, and this requires an outfit for exercise newbies. You could just wear any old thing, but you will feel more committed and are more likely to keep going if you have a dedicated outfit for this purpose.
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Happy Holidays 2015!
Happy holidays 2015. It’s that time of year again – seems like only yesterday I was doing this for 2014.
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About Dame Edna’s Amazing Signature Style
My gladioli are coming into flower, and I donโt know about you, but I always think of housewife gigastar Dame Edna Everage when I see gladioli.
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Outfit for the Beach
Like most people, I love summer. But while many Australians love the beach, Iโm more of a bush person. But, it seems a good time to think about an Outfit for the beach.
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November 2015 Progress Report
Iโve mostly mooched around for November 2015, but now Iโve washed my clothes and cleaned my house, and itโs time to get moving again.
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For Better or Worse, Life goes on
My Aunt’s funeral is over and according to popular wisdom I’ve said my goodbyes and should move on, but I don’t want to rush forward yet. Life goes on; and at this time of year, life is relentless.
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How Not to Regret Your Life…
My Aunt’s is the sort of thing that makes you think about your death and wonder how not to regret your life.
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2015 Summer Wardrobe Plan part 3
In part one, I talked about the basics, part two a wardrobe review, and now in the 2015 Summer Wardrobe Plan part 3, it’s time to refine the plan.
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2015 Summer Wardrobe Plan part 2
In part 1, I formulated the basic plan. Now, in the 2015 Summer Wardrobe Plan part 2, it’s time to get a bit more specific about the details.
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2015 Summer Wardrobe Plan part 1
After four years of unemployment, I must buy clothes for the life I’m currently living. It’s time to develop aย 2015 Summer Wardrobe plan.
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October 2015 Progress Report
October 2015 is over already โ is it my imagination or is time speeding up? Or is it just that I have spent so much time in introspection this month.
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2015 Transplantiversary
Today is my transplant’s fourth birthday, or as I call them, transplantiversary. I usually do a Birthday Stocktake, and since my transplant, I’ve done them for its anniversary too.
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The Ghosts of Christmas Past are Alive in the Supermarket
I’m not sure if you have noticed, but the ghosts of Christmas past are sneaking up on us again. Perhaps if I left the house more often I would have noticed the relentless build up sooner, but writing and its spin-off businesses are generally solitary home body occupations.
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2015 Mid-Year Review Wisdom
Last six monthly review today; 2015 mid-year review wisdom. Wisdom has its roots in the values of flourishing and spirit, via the values rethink.
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2015 Mid-Year Review Pleasure
After six months, it’s time for the 2015 mid-year review pleasure.ย My virtue of pleasure started out as pleasant pastimesย but changed its name on its way through theย values rethink.
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2015 Mid-Year Review Friendship
I am aware that it’s a bit late for the 2015 mid-year review friendship (friends, family and contribution), but it has been done, just not published, so I’ll be rushing it and the others out over the next few days to catch you up
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September 2015 Progress Report
September 2015 Virtue August September Notes beauty: bodyweigh โค61kg by 14 December ๐ 66.3kg ๐65.5kg My hospital review went well aside from the predicted lecture about weight control. My doctor helpfully suggested that I should eat no more than half of any food given me. He made me want to eat half of a serve of…
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Why and How I Wrote Signature Wardrobe Planning
It’s a good question. Complicated but good, and I’ll try to keep my explanation of why and how I wrote the book simple. (and short)
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What You Need to Know for a Strategic Wardrobe Review
As It’s the time of year for swapping clothes out as the seasons change, so it’s time to talk about a strategic wardrobe review.
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Outfit for the Fair
And after I forcibly relaxed my face (didn’t want the wind to change and it to stay that way) it occurred to me that I haven’t shared what I learned about buildingย outfits with you, so I’ll use my outfit as an example of how to build an Outfit for the Fair.
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Queen Elizabeth II Coronation Dinner Party
I’m not sure if you know (or care) that since acceding to the throne on June 2 1953 Queen Elizabeth the Second (QEII), by the Grace of God of the United Kingdom of Great Britain and Northern Ireland and of Her other Realms and Territories Queen, Head of the Commonwealth, Defender of the Faith became…
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Is the Road to Hell Paved with Activity Trackers?
I have a (cunning)ย plan for losing the weight and slimming down. It involves an activity tracker.
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How Wardrobe Reviews Make You Happy and Boost Personal Power
I recently watched a video where women talked about theย life-changing nature of KonMari-ing their closets.ย How theirย wardrobe reviews boosted their personal power, and made them happy.
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August 2015
Iโm sorry, youโre probably tired of progress reports by now (what with all the six monthly reviews) so Iโll keep August 2015 short.
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2015 Mid-Year Review โ Virtue of Friendship: Creatures
Six months later, it’s time for the 2015 mid-year review creatures. This virtue relates to caringย about both my dogs and the wild creatures that live in my garden and nearby.
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How to Identify a Marriageable Man
This led me to wonderย whether there was a time when men were mercilessly judgedย by women, and actually there was; as a marriageable man. Itย was about their suitability as husbands so perhaps moreย realistically the scrutiny came fromย girl’sย fathers, but girls were given advice about what they should consider and this is what I amย presenting to you today.
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2015 Mid-Year Review โ Virtue of Beauty: Garden
Time to look back at the garden with the 2015 mid-year review garden. Starting from the position of needing to remediate the wasteland we lived on, but knowing next to nothing about gardening, I wanted toย develop a garden withย lush flowers, abundant produce, weather protection and a mystical threshold.
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2015 Mid-Year Review โ Virtue of Beauty: Home
Next up is the 2015 mid-year review home. My first Beauty review was body, then presence, a detour past wealth and now back to beauty with home.
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2015 Mid-Year Review โ Virtue of Wealth
I’m breaking out of my virtue sequence to look at the 2015 mid-year review wealth because a number of things have happened that make the virtue of wealth more important than I would really like it to be.
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How 1918 style weight control makes you slim and happy
Suggestions from 1918 are in the three to five-year time frame. so it makes sense you need to think about weight control and how to maintain your body shape so that your clothes will fit you for the durationย as well.
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July 2015 Progress Report
That’s July 2015 down; it’s been a quiet one as you would expect with the first cold of the season. I’ve been wrestling with my tax return,ย startedย some half-hearted Christmas shopping for overseas friends and family (I prefer to use the slowest cheapest dispatch method).
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Titanic First Class (Advanced) Dinner Party
Following on from the Beginners and Intermediate Titanic Dinners, it’s time to tackle a Stress Free Titanic First Class (Advanced) Dinner Party.
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Marie Lloyd Queen of the Music Hall
I followedย a link from here to there to somewhere else entirely and found myself in the land of the Victorian English Music Hall, hot on the heels of larger than life Marie Lloyd, theย “Queen of the Music Hall”ย (1870 – 1922).
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A Critique of Glamour’s “24 Fashion Essentials You’ll Need in 2015”
In a large nutshell, this is my problem with โfashion essentialsโ. An essential is something that you just canโt do without; the air that you breathe for example. Fashion is a customary or conventional way of doing something; in this instance, a way of dressing.
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2015 Mid-Year Review Presence
And now it’s time to reflect on how my look has developed in the 2015 mid-year review presence.
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2015 Mid-Year Body Review
Six months in, it’s time for the June 2015 mid-year body review. Recap: I started Project Worthwhile Life around eight months ago withย the primary goal of flourishing, supported by my household.
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The Grim Side of Garden Grooming
Another quick one today, as I am still down with the cold and cursing my lack of foresight in NOT buying eucalyptus body wash for just this occasion. If you are at all squeamish about faeces you might want to skip this post. The sun was out today, and after three days chock full of napping, I…
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Three Kinds of Capsule Wardrobe
I’m trying to get myย bookย Build Your Signature Wardrobe finished, so a quick post about the three kinds of capsule wardrobe.
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Dinner Party to Comfort a Friend with a Cold
If you’re the kind of person who likes to look after your sick friends, here’s our cold/flu care recipes for your Dinner Party to Comfort a Friend with a Cold.
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Ruminations on Rodents
Wild rodentsย can carry disease (and otherย pests like fleas and mites), they are NOT diseased because they are rodents.
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How to Get Exercise Into Your Life
have been thinking a lot about exercise recently.ย I have acknowledged in my last few progress reports that I need to move more, but I haven’t actually done anything about it.ย Shame on me.
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The Importance of Appropriateness in Clothing
I thought I’d share some thoughts aboutย the old fashioned notion of Appropriateness. Many people reject appropriateness because so often it hasย the moral connotation of right and wrong.
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The Pursuit of Perfection
Over a wide-ranging breakfast discussion this morning, Toseland describedย evolution as the pursuit of perfection.ย I thought that was a pretty interesting way to describe natural selection, but it’s true.ย It is the creatures that are best adapted to their environment that will survive long enough to reproduce.